Dear Salewa,
I hope this letter finds you in a moment of calm amidst the pressures that life often throws our way. It’s not easy navigating the expectations surrounding marriage, especially when the ticking of the clock becomes louder. I want you to know that you are not alone in this journey, and your path is uniquely yours.
In our society, where timelines often feel rigid, and age seems to be a relentless companion, it’s understandable to sense the pressure to embark on the journey of marriage. However, I want to encourage you to embrace your unique timeline and trust in the unfolding of your story.
1. Your Journey, Your Timeline: Just like the blooming of a flower, your life unfolds in its own time. There is no universal calendar dictating when certain milestones should be achieved. Your journey is uniquely yours, and it’s okay if it doesn’t align with societal expectations.
2. Quality Over Timelines: The beauty of a relationship lies in the depth of connection, shared values, and mutual respect—not in meeting a deadline. Focus on building a partnership that enriches your life rather than rushing into a commitment that may not align with your true desires.
3. Embrace Self-Discovery: This period of your life is a precious opportunity for self-discovery and personal growth. Use this time to explore your passions, dreams, and what truly brings you joy. The more you understand yourself, the clearer your path becomes.
4. Communicate Your Truth: It’s okay to communicate your feelings with those around you, especially if they are contributing to the pressure you’re feeling. Open and honest conversations can help others understand your perspective, fostering a supportive environment.
5. Trust in Divine Timing: Trust in the divine timing of your life. Things may not unfold exactly as planned, but often, they unfold in ways we couldn’t have imagined. Believe that the right person and the right circumstances will align when the time is right.
Remember, your worth is not determined by a marital status or societal timelines. Your journey is a tapestry of experiences, and every thread, whether woven now or later, contributes to the masterpiece of your life.
Take a deep breath, embrace the uniqueness of your journey, and allow life to unfold in its own time. You are a vibrant, evolving soul, and your path is adorned with possibilities.
With warm regards,
We Are COPE